Hi, I'm Mari.
I want to help you end the “add to cart” coping method, and reclaim your life!
Have you seen the meme? It’s one of my faves. Goes like this:
Therapist: And what do we do when we’re sad?
Client: Add to cart?
Therapist: Nooooo.
Definitely not the best coping method (though I’ve found varying shopping apps to be some of the best sad time-sucks there are!).
I’m guessing life for you right now feels something like this: You are a beautiful mosaic of intersecting identities. You’re on a unique journey, but it feels uncertain, even elusive. You’re yearning for something undefinable. There’s a deep, painful void where you know something should be. And no, it’s not whatever is in the Amazon cart.
If you’re reading this, then you’re likely one half of a “super couple.” You and your partner work hard and are quite successful. Still, there can be moments of disconnection from each other. This is challenging to decipher, let alone conquer. I provide therapy that aligns efficiently, pragmatically, empathically, and discreetly with your journey.
In relationships as confusing as they are intense, labels on your partners and experiences by loved ones are often restrictive; being heard, not categorized, is essential. Simply stated: I neither judge nor label. I only have compassion, understanding, and pay close attention to your needs.
ADHD, Autism Spectrum Disorder, AuDHD, or any number of other beautiful different neurodiversities (so many of which are never, and need never be formally diagnosed), can present us with challenges in our relationships. Functioning with a neurodivergent brain in a world made for neurotypical brains can create struggles everywhere in our lives. Among other struggles, it can leave us feeling exhausted and like we don’t fit in and will never be understood.
In my office, you’ll find gentle holding, partnership in working through these challenges, resources for the journey, and great respect and valuing of you as you are.
Amidst these unique complexities...
When we wrestle with our sexuality, the intertwining spiritual implications and societal messages can seem daunting to navigate on our own. The freedom of speaking openly with someone who possesses the needed knowledge, but isn’t personally invested in your decisions or beliefs, is just one part of the sanctuary offered here.
The discomfort of pelvic pain brings feelings of betrayal by your body. It can be so difficult to see that solutions await to restore your lost joy. We’ll walk through the emotional pain of the betrayal, the chaos it’s caused in your relationships, and the physical pain you feel… All. The. Time.
If your emphasis is on kickstarting your therapy, discernment, one issue you’d like to tackle and knock out in one weekend; or whether it’s focused therapy each week or biweekly to gently guide you more readily throughout your hustle, you’ll find a match here.
…consider this place your port in the storm.
In this place, every voice will be honored, every concern met with understanding and respect.
We will untangle your life’s intricacies, journeying towards self-discovery, equanimity, and growth, after this drought in your life.
Here are some deets on me,
so you know a little about who you’re jumping in with (brace yourself!):
Here I am, with severe ADHD in tow! You should know this, as it influences my already unique approach to therapy. But don’t worry, I’ll fill in this vague reference when we meet (fingers crossed I remember, #ADHDlife).
One of my ways of doing life: Humor is essential! It keeps things lively, and yes, sometimes it invites those… interesting (we’ll go with that, sure) words into our conversations. Sometimes, they’re the only f***ing fit. What can I say?
Finally, expect a jargon-free zone from me. Therapy-speak can feel tedious and patronizing, so I strive for clear, honest communication. My aim is to connect with you on a genuine level, providing understanding, empowerment, and compassionate guidance as we journey together toward self-discovery and growth (this is about as close to jargon as I get).
If you’re still reading… you’ve earned your crown of martyrdom!
cue THE boring (but necessary) credentials:
Credentials:
License: GA #LPC9836
Certificate: AASECT - Certified Sex Therapist / 1197589 Original Certificate Date: 2021
I graduated valedictorian from Hellenic College in Brookline, MA with a bachelor’s degree in religious studies. I earned a Master’s of Science with honors in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Mercer University and, while in residence there, completed my practicum and internship at Peachford Behavioral Health Systems in Atlanta, Georgia. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor in the state of Georgia.
I am a Certified Sex Therapist, certified by The American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT).
I am constantly continuing my education in the areas of trauma, sex therapy, intimacy, gender, and sexuality counseling, as well as all those methods of therapy I mentioned above.
In addition, I am a member of the South Eastern Brainspotting Institute, the Atlanta Group Psychotherapy Society, and the Licensed Professional Counselors Association of Georgia. I abide by the codes of ethics of those organizations.
I am an active advocate for sexual minorities. I travel worldwide and speak to groups of clergy and theologians in formal conference settings as well as informal discussions about LGBTQIA+ folx’ experiences of trauma, spirituality, and the need for inclusivity in religious spaces.
TLDR
Are you one half of a high achieving, probably perfectionist Super Couple (others call them power couples), or a similar individual? Are you neurodiverse? Yeah… We’re gonna get along great!
You prob want efficient therapy both as a couple and an individual. Again! I got you!
If you struggle with stuff like intimacy, ADHD, AudHD, or other neurodiversities and how they affect you and your relationships, discerning whether to divorce, chronic sexual pain, LGBTQ+ specific struggles, spiritual trauma, sexual trauma, and / or you are in or are considering exiting a wounding relationship (others call them “toxic” relationships), then I’m your gal! I’ve got tons and tons of experience with this shit. Let’s get moving so we can get you some relief!
Also, I’ve got HELLA bad ADHD
And… I use wirty dords
Btw, no likey all the therapy wordies.
Oh! I worked really hard and got lotsa creds. If you’re really interested (they’re kinda cool), you can read them. They’re up there. ⬆︎